When someone in your team failsโ€ฆ what do you do? Featuring Winston Churchill and Michael Jordan.

21 October 2025

A project misses the deadline.
A rep loses a key deal.
An ambitious idea flops.

And just when the person most needs support โ€” their leader turns cold.
Withdraws.
Punishes.
Emotionally discards them.

But hereโ€™s the thing:
๐Ÿ‘Ž That moment isnโ€™t just a test of the employee.
โœ… Itโ€™s a test of ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ as a leader.

๐— ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ป reflected:
โ€œIโ€™ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career.
Iโ€™ve lost almost 300 games.
26 times, Iโ€™ve been trusted to take the game-winning shotโ€ฆ and missed.
Iโ€™ve failed over and over and over again in my life.
And that is why I succeed.โ€

๐—ช๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—–๐—ต๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—น suggested that: โ€œSuccess is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.โ€

As the story goes, ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—. ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐—ฟ. (founder / leader at IBM) was once asked whether heโ€™d fire an employee whose mistake cost the company $600,000. His reply reportedly was: "I just spent $600,000 training him โ€” why would I want someone else to hire his experience?"

As a leader, you canโ€™t always stop the fall.
But you get to decide how someone ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด.
Do you kick them when theyโ€™re down? No matter how unintentional.
Or do you help them make sense of the failure - so they come back stronger?

๐ŸŽฏ Because in any bold action, there are only two outcomes:
You win, or
You learn.

Great leaders know this.
And they create a culture where people are safe to try & stumble - and grow.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Whatโ€™s the best way ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถโ€™๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ in their team?

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