When someone in your team failsโฆ what do you do? Featuring Winston Churchill and Michael Jordan.
21 October 2025
A project misses the deadline.
A rep loses a key deal.
An ambitious idea flops.
And just when the person most needs support โ their leader turns cold.
Withdraws.
Punishes.
Emotionally discards them.
But hereโs the thing:
๐ That moment isnโt just a test of the employee.
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Itโs a test of ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ as a leader.
๐ ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฒ๐น ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป reflected:
โIโve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career.
Iโve lost almost 300 games.
26 times, Iโve been trusted to take the game-winning shotโฆ and missed.
Iโve failed over and over and over again in my life.
And that is why I succeed.โ
๐ช๐ถ๐ป๐๐๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐น๐น suggested that: โSuccess is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.โ
As the story goes, ๐ง๐ต๐ผ๐บ๐ฎ๐ ๐. ๐ช๐ฎ๐๐๐ผ๐ป ๐ฆ๐ฟ. (founder / leader at IBM) was once asked whether heโd fire an employee whose mistake cost the company $600,000. His reply reportedly was: "I just spent $600,000 training him โ why would I want someone else to hire his experience?"
As a leader, you canโt always stop the fall.
But you get to decide how someone ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ด.
Do you kick them when theyโre down? No matter how unintentional.
Or do you help them make sense of the failure - so they come back stronger?
๐ฏ Because in any bold action, there are only two outcomes:
You win, or
You learn.
Great leaders know this.
And they create a culture where people are safe to try & stumble - and grow.
๐ฌ Whatโs the best way ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถโ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ข๐ช๐ญ๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ in their team?